Henry’s Biography, a Generis of IN Attraction Founder and “Seduction
Instructor”, described by those who know him.
Henry’s Biography, a Generis of IN Attraction Founder and “Seduction
Instructor”, described by those who know him.
• IN Attraction Leader and Founder
• Seduction Instructor, Self-Esteem, Personal Growth Coach and Social Dynamics
• Researcher, Analyst and Expert in Anthropology, Psychology, Sociology and Communication
• Motivator and Personal Life & Job Coach
• Image Consultant and Personal Shopper for Giorgio Armani
• Promotion of Fitness and Psycho-Physical Well-being
• Polyglot and Specialist in European Mentality (especially Italian, Spanish, English and German)
Henry is a successful instructor as we have known it today but it’s not that easy.
It was born in the worst possible way for this kind of argument. It was born from a desperate discourse
in the car of an incessant rain. I remember it, as it was yesterday. It was born on the desire to redeem
a guy hit after some stories went wrong.
A young nerd, closed in the world of PC and hardware.
It happens to everyone but these disappointments, instead of being a simple step in everyday life,
are a real hit to the heart of the one who will become Henry.
Rather than thinking “well that’s what’s happening to everyone, it’s ok” he reacts so clamorously.
First, try to understand the mistakes made by studying, informing and getting into the world of seduction
and improving each day by discerning bullshit sellers with useful notions.
Early changes start and other falls are inevitable. But now he has understood the way and does not
stop deciding on the path of self-restraint, against everything and against all, because when you decide
to change you have against anyone who shakes his head.
After consolidating and seeing increased awareness, he begins to become interested in female
Henry pictures a man at a party with two girls;
There would be encyclopedias and entire video libraries, but he develops his theory, with seemingly
obvious, in fact, very detailed rules on the female universe. And here they start to flush out the
successes with interesting situations as when he decided that the limits exist only in our head and so
… here he is simultaneously with three different girls, one of them ten years older than him.
Clearly attendance and getting off with the boy of the beginning is already evident. He does not
hesitate to engage seriously, however, the fate puts on his own serving girls with many problems. He is
tireless, instead of closing on himself use these experiences to the surreal limit to deepen his
knowledge with the complicity of university texts in Psychology, Anthropology and Sociology.
Even these difficult cases, marking him deeply, contribute to form his character.
Also here as it always he never gives up.
Vlad – Friend of Henry since 2006
Testing, calibration errors, notes, experiences with the other sex and the rest of the society are part
of Henry’s life, which is increasingly fascinated by a world that for too long had remained unexplored
… but paradoxically in everyone’s life.
Consider the first decade of 2000: It was the years when there were few sources of seduction on the
internet, and anyone who took into the idea of falling into this universe was permanently attached to
concepts created over an overseas environment with different dynamics, difficult to apply to the European
context … less to the Italian one.
It was the era of American Gurus like David De Angelo and Mystery, considered the only bearers of
revelations in this field and major online material speakers, on which to begin to create the basis of
their own mentality. Henry tried them all to realize what really was considered “gold”, in fact something
that was difficult to reproduce in Europe, governed by clichés and wrong social convictions.
However, he did not discourage and on the contrary, took the next opportunity to step down into the
environment and experience all kinds of experiences to make them precious and draw conclusions, refining
their techniques more and more, the most imperceptible mistakes reaching the point of providing “lessons”
on the field, when he was young, just twenty, to older friends and acquaintances.
Henry and Marco, his first to wing.
Having never felt that, despite the fame gained over time and the concrete results of his own (and of the
students themselves), continues to apply the principles discovered and developed over time, keeping his
hunger of knowledge alive, doing a job that first of all is a passion and reason for life.
At any student participant yourself the question “how did you think, Henry?” Be the most popular answer,
delivered with a smile on his face, could easily be “a” Nazi “…!”. And then swarming with a genuine
laugh and statements far more reassuring and rewarding (…).
Henry … when the fashion of selfie was crazy
To any student asking the question “how did you feel Henry?” The most popular answer with a smile on
face, could quietly be “a Nazi “…!”. Then with a sincere laugh and affirmations far more reassuring and
The truth is that what the quality of a service is emerging in any field is the seriousness and the
intention to dedicate own presence, physical and mental, to those who receive it.
Henry does not have the randy character, typical of those who “have no time to lose” and personally cares
of every smaller achievement of each of his students. Because he consider communicating his knowledge to
people willing to learn and open to the world, one of the greatest gratifications that life can offer.
For this to be perceived and assimilated more fully by anyone who decides to turn to him is necessary to
make him realize every little mistake, helping him to correct it, at the cost of spending a full day on
this, until the total annulment of the mistake.
A course with Henry is hard; intense; (sometimes) fatigued … and Henry is precise; determined;
cheering; severe (…). The factor that characterizes a course with him is his ability to empathize with
the person he faces.
Besides being an instructor, he’s a friend. And from that, it would never be permissible not to give
everything for the achievement of the goals of those who ask for his support … From this, he recognizes
the limits and pushes him to be able to break them, bringing new of experiences and results of life.
Because he cares. And the success of a student becomes a common success, so also his.
Selfie shot by a student during a course with Henry
Henry’s excitement is noted by a seductive company from the international brand, who proposes him to
become instructor: he decides to continue to play, accept the challenge and face any inevitable pressure
dictated by the visibility that comes from to create around his figure, demonstrating (first of all to
himself) his own value.
As it may sound paradoxical in relation to its current notoriety, in reality, it is not a showing-off
He loves to work hard in the shadows, in silence and to prove his value on the “field” using the words
only when needed: this modus operandi (which will accompany him in the entire 15-month as a “company
instructor”) is even what he teaches to his students and it is what he is extremely proud of.
The end of the collaboration with the company is the beginning of the freedom to express his own ideas
and modus operandi, with a further awareness of his own theories, his methods and his results (positive
feedback obtained in few months are uncountable): IN Attraction is about to be born and he promises to
himself and his students that it will be an absolutely revolutionary, international and non-limiting
Henry himself does not want limits.
In the field of self-improvement at 360 °, Henry is also interested in fashion because a person who
wants to achieve in every area of his life cannot neglect the way he presents himself to the world.
Here’s how to become interested in an internationally renowned brand, Giorgio Armani. First, exploring
the collections and buying the clothes for himself and then advising them as Fashion & Style
Over time his tastes, his skill in selecting the garments and his particular modus operandi in assisting
his students (other than “fashion”) are noticed and become so personal shopper for Giorgio Armani
Here, excellence in counseling to people blends excellence in style and design, bringing the overall
level of Henry’s teaching ever closer to perfection.
Henry and a student during a Fashion & Style course
Other courses,additional “self-education” and in a few
months have the opportunity to organize a course in Barcelona (a city he deeply loves) as instructor,
right next to one of the founding fathers of American Seduction, Erik Von Markovik (alias Mystery) , who
was one of the first authors to let him go into the world that has torn his life: Henry does not pull
back and accept the international confrontation, bringing with him even three of his students, aware that
he would risk his face to them because his own methodological and / or cognitive deficiencies compared to
This course also played alongside Alvaro Reyes (a renowned Spanish instructor), is far from simple, to
the point that witnesses speak of heated discussions between Henry and Mystery about the contents
expressed by the latter, calm down as Henry demonstrates, as always, his value on the field, thus,
gaining respect for all, as well as a bond of friendship with all the instructors.
Returning from Barcelona leaves him much more than just a few photos or videos about the event, a further
awareness of his value even in the international sphere: Italy’s knowledge of Italian mentality is no
Piazza del Popolo, Rome. I am waiting an instructor (word that, in describing him it in the future,
will be reduced).
I had already been able to talk to him via Skype a few weeks ago; he was my telephone host in the
special section of my radio program.
Already on that occasion my friends, after the episode, asked me who was so profound, wise and
skillful voice at the same time that, with a clear and far deep analysis, had managed so well to frame my
co-speaker and her sentimental situation … marveling at myself during his speech … Elena was looking
at me terrified, while whispering me, “Who the hell is this guy? “.
I had heard of him, I had read enough of Henry’s comments and positive feedback … but the
disruptive and fascinating way with which he managed to monopolize my program was the best business card
I could imagine. An open book of female and dynamic psychology, man-woman, an attentive and imperturbable
observer of actions and reactions.
I said, people’s square, Rome.
There comes a huge figure, wide shoulders, black leather jacket, Ray-Ban goggles that hide the eyes
of who know and have seen so many but do not hide the smile of a man who would soon enchant me with
arguments and the most disparate reflections on the infinite world of eternal struggle between the two
With a surprisingly bold move, he opened that morning without having time to make it known, he
stopped an English woman who was there for a walk; In less than 5 minutes, although, she had been
proclaimed having a boy friend on several occasions, he did not hesitate to take his cell phone to
exchange phone numbers.
That afternoon long walks, interspersed by sudden approaches with women in the street where high
communicative talents were intertwined with self-control and devastating irony.
I greeted him with a hug and two strong convictions: the awareness that I wanted to break the world
and take a course with him, the security of having met a friend before a serious and well-trained
From that day on, his career has been on the rise, since last “collaboration” with the colleague
Mystery of the overseas and the decision to finally undertake a rich and conscious path alone.
Many recall his chest voice, others his philosophical calm and almost Zen wisdom … I remembered
him when I accompanied him to the train station for Turin, when in fraternal and serious tone he told me
a phrase that still echoes today as a mantra in my head repeating me: “Raise that ass out of the chair
and live the life you deserve.”
Henry Mele … what else?
Eligio – radio host of “Radio Luiss”
The IN ATTRACTION route
A 360 degree training on the world of seduction, self-improvement and social focused on the PERSON and
NOT on patterns. This really makes a difference in Henry’s approach and teaching to the students.
Each course is PERSONALIZED in relation to the needs of the student himself and his current skills.
There is no “standard action” scheme that can be used on every person but a specific and individual way
for troubleshooting and overcoming limits.
Henry, before opening his mouth to explain anything, focuses on the trainee in front of him, with the
sole purpose of understanding his personality with the concerned difficulties of his past and often wrong
life routines; to frame the situation in the most complete way and to set up a GOOD and INTENSIVE action
plan aimed at cutting down every fear and preconception and aiming at 360 degree the student’s
expectations for the course.
Henry listened carefully to a student
It is a strong, exhausting and revealing experience. Henry is the student’s shadow, every little thing is
taken into consideration and from every kind of situation are valued the positive subjective totally
eliminated negative aspects. Certainly this is not a “walk”, it is necessary for anyone interested in
going to a live course with Henry, willing to completely undo all kinds of anchoring to their ego or
limiting fear to their abilities.
It is absolutely essential to have total confidence in the figure of an instructor who puts his passion
first, as work and lifestyle … and let go of his directives. Henry pushes you beyond the limit, reveals
you concepts that every day you might have thought to be taken into consideration or exist, opens your
eyes to a world that for many people is just an illusion from movies … but you have to be willing to
completely follow him.
He provides the “magic formula” to anybody … because with him you know to be it.
While it is true that for every statement made is necessary to match the reality, in the case of Henry
the facts speak clearly.
At the end of each course, each student’s meticulous feedback is given regarding the goals set before
embarking on the path with the instructor’s figure and their vision at the end of the course.
Free opinion, no censorship and detailed; Every point of view is crucial to understanding how much work
there is behind every single person … and putting the student’s priorities in the first place, all his
thinking become fundamental to the contribution of the right method of action.
For the present. For the future.
Henry holds a seminary
I know Enrico since we were in the university, where he and his ex-colleague Marco carried out
“Seduction Project”. With them, I did a very intense course of 2 weeks.
Immediately, Henry seemed very well prepared and demanding. Over time, I can confirm that this
peculiarity has remained and has become a real distinctive trait.
Henry is always well-informed about the topics he teaches from a psychological, social and
anthropological point of view.
His “lab” is always open and experimentation never ends.
Over time, I noticed that the principles of her method, customized on the student, have expanded and
deepened, reaching to unexplored areas.
All this was visible during the Barcelona Special Event 2016, where I attended and where Enrico
conducted a seminar on seduction and social dynamics along with other prominent figures in the field (Mr.
Mystery on Everyone).
With Mystery, the discussion about the “American method” and the “European method” has been much
discussed, Mr. Mystery has been much closer to its position, but then acknowledged the validity of what
Not only that, Henry managed to give a psychological explanation of the founding principles of the
Mr. Mystery method, more than Mystery itself.
At the same time, Enrico has been able to suggest students – guided in day and night game sessions –
how to absorb the Mr. Mystery teachings and make them personal in relation to their personality, without
having to repeat everything like parrots, getting the estimate and respect for other seduction
As for Enrico’s figure, there is a noticeable improvement in the quality of the transition from the
company with which he has collaborated to IN Attraction, as an instructor he is more free and has fewer
constraints in explaining certain concepts to students.
Alessandro – “Historical” Henry student since 2010
IN Attraction Staff
A serious, sober and ambitious project like IN Attraction does not go unnoticed, especially in the field
of personal growth and seduction, where marketing, behavioral clowning patterns and the image of the
female body become masterpieces.
The staff then becomes large and close to 5 members. Another qualified instructor joins Henry: Ermes. The
mental understanding with the latter is almost immediate.
Henry and the last entry into the Staff: Ermes
What struck me more of Enrico is his strong character, but with a “good-man-behavior” background, due
to the fact that he was not born with his character but he built it.
From a working point of view, people with his ambition is rare, but at the same time ambition not
tied to the outcome but to the well-being of his students, he loves what he does. He holds to the group
and friendships, relations with him are important because he understands that without them, it is not
going anywhere and one is not deeply happy. From the car ride we have faced our weaknesses and we are
very similar. We have accepted them and this makes us stronger because we do not need to hide them.
He really cares about the students and this is denoted by how he behaves with them, considering them
as his sons, in particular I saw a smile he did to Alexander in whom I realized the deep affection he
felt for him.
He is worse than Leonidas! 😂
Hermes – Instructor and Staff Member of IN Attraction
Henry analyzes his assistant’s chat.
He always considers himself as a student, constant and perpetual growth and improvement in his work as in
every other field of life.
In particular, in 2013 he began to be fond of fitness and physical well-being, to the point that gym
workouts, which in the past helped him to redeem himself from an overweight childhood, became a routine
and rigid discipline (beyond To a metaphor of life) to which he decides voluntarily to submit, perfectly
compatible with the seductive lifestyle that teaches and follows in person: “Pain and Gain”…….”Suffers
At the end of 2015, he finally finds a gym that fulfills his needs (yes, he is demanding and pretentious,
but never as he is to himself) and he has become formally, since then, a student of his PT David: even in
this, the mental understanding and the human relationship go beyond any formal status, to the point that
the two are very confident and the hours together are never limited to a cold session of intense workout.
Henry engaged in squatting with his PT
So what do I think when I think of Henry? … as a first thing in absolute, determination and
dedication in the gym in life and in his work.
Secondly, I would say altruism or rather need to help others and give something to his students and
in general to give something to society … that is, he does not want to think about satisfying his ego
but really print his mark.
Then, braveness in what he does … that is, believe it to be so absorbed 100% in his days.
Another feature of introspection are the analysis of what he is doing and what he is and what happens
to him to become almost maniac.
Then, if I think of him I do not think about spontaneity.. it is the result of what has been built as
a language, as an attitude as a way to do it … almost as if he is not himself but the result of what
was built by working on himself.
David – Personal Trainer Henry