How to Win A Girl Over on WhatsApp
Finally, here we are.
It was for a while that I wanted to write down two lines on how to win a girl on whatsapp: as for the million times that I was asked, I find it necessary to bring the real and genuine answer right away.
True practice, correct modus operandi, the ultimate solution to the unsettled crucible of conquering the other sex, through WhatsApp chat.
Block note in your hand and be ready.
There is no specific solution to the problem.
Because the problem is exactly the same concept of the need to purchasing a girl on WhatsApp (or any chat platform).
A vicious circle, in short.
I get CHILLS when I hear (from too many people) “taking the number, then chat and the conquest on whatsapp …” because in chat you do not “work” nothing, not even “conquest” her if there is no solid interaction between you and her ion the real life.
The secret of the chat on line is right here: to consider it a means and not an end.
I know serial collectors of phone numbers, headlines featuring female names, chat randomly, looking for the perfect combination of words to get out with the woman.
And then I get the phrase “she gave me the number, buts he answers me sometime… I’m wrong with something in chat.”
No guys.
Let’s get to it by logic: it’s a matter of goals.
From the moment when the primary goal of an interaction with a girl is her phone number, as long as you can reach it, you will be stack at that.
Because, right from the start, even assuming that the initial intention is to know the girl you are facing, from the moment you acquire the concept of “check point”, “step” seduction, by putting the phone number (with relative chat) as the first goal for meet her, you are bound to common practice and remain in the limelight of the “chatzone”.
Ergo, nothing more counterproductive, because this consideration will be “seduction to goals / steps” (condemned in our seduction courses), which will limit your interactions by shifting the real focus of conversation (ie, knowledge) towards something Which, apparently, seems more convenient and practical (such as a chat rather than live conversation) but that, in the reality of the facts, it will be nothing different and with the same emotional impact whatever it would do with any other dump, intent on sneaking into the panties of those in front, passing through the comfortable ways (comfort zone).
Ergo, the interaction may be out of the ordinary or at least pleasant … but NOT SOLID.
And “random answers” in chat, will be the final result only.
So put yourself in the head that there should not be a question as to win a woman on whatsapp, as we’re talking about chat:
CHAT IS A MEAN AS ANOTHER TO SPEND TIME THAT REMAIN UNTIL THE MEETING AND INCREASE FAMILIARITY WITH THE INTERLOCUTOR: IT IS NOT A SEDUCTION GOAL!
The question now arises spontaneously: “So, now what do I say in chat?”
The answer is just as “what you like” or, even better, “exactly what you would say in real, in the same solid interaction that brought you to this chat.”
Now, I’m unbalnced.
On the one hand, I do not want you to focus on chat, but on live interaction.
On the other hand, this article explains how to win a girl on whatsapp, but I find it right and proper to make a couple of arrangements so that they can form interactions, even in chat, of a certain thickness.
So also consider these factors below, but with the due diligence and due CALIBRATION, depending on who you have on the other side of the phone.
Specifically, I strongly advise you to keep in mind 3 KEY POINTS that touch on the principles of value and investment (as well as pillars of the hinges of seduction):
1 – TIME
The “TIME” is quite obvious: if she answer after 3 hours, take your time to answer back or spend a whole day (pure example, do not focus on math: seduction is not mathematics);
2 – CONSISTENCY OF MESSAGES
Don’t you invest more than she already did (for example: in a sentence, do not respond with a monologue, unless the specific case does require it).
If you want to enjoy the deeper the personality of the girl you are talking to, do not be afraid to spend more words, being too constrained by this rule, but calibrate accordingly keeping it as a background for everything else;
3 – FORESEEABILITY OF MESSAGES
As in reality, you get out of the standard conversation settings, playing on unpredictability.
As with a question, you might be able to respond with a picture or a response outside the schemas, even to re-connect a conversation, you can refer to something that during your live interaction has pleasantly emotionally involved both (a topic, a memory , a picture, a situation …) without falling into the cliché of the standard openings on the false line of “all right? 🙂 “.
As you can see, there are no standard functional schemas for a perfect chat, but only principles, which are directly related to some that regulate the seduction between two people, in real.
Think about that and not how to win a female on WhatsApp.
Think of chemistry between two minds in an intriguing conversation.
The rest, including chat, will become a natural consequence.
A hug,
IN Attraction Staff